Beginner's Page

You should expect to have a great night out with music, dancing, food, and new friends. But, you should not expect what you see in the movies. It is not one big free-for-all where everyone is naked and with someone other than their spouse. It is a party where you can meet other couples and have a good time whether it’s in or out of the bedroom.

Don’t have unrealistic expectations.

Beginners’ Page

A very basic description of Swinging is that it is a Lifestyle for couples who want to meet other couples for consensual adult activities. Activities may include anything from simply hanging out or voyeurism to soft swap, full swap or anything in between.

Swinging is something you do as a couple.

Unfortunately, in the past there have been many a wife who thought she was going to a party only to find herself at a Lifestyle Club. The wife was rarely pleased at this and the husband usually ended up on the couch for the night. It is for this reason that it is in the couples’ best interest that you communicate with each other. You should have a list of rules that you, as a couple, should follow regarding what you are comfortable with. Some couples agree that for the first dance, they will not accept any invitations from another couple. It is entirely up to you and your comfort level as a couple.

You should BOTH be on the same page.